But if there’s still no sign of a growing belly, after what feels like months and months of trying, you probably would want to make a little more of an effort, to coax those little swimmers to the egg.
Make sure that you’re making love around the time that you’re ovulating. This will increase your chances of falling pregnant. Most women ovulate around the 15th day of their cycle. (Start counting from the first day of your period). If you’re not sure, buy an ovulation home test kit, so that you know exactly which days to aim for.
A sexual position can make a difference in whether or not you fall pregnant
A sexual position can also make a difference in whether or not you fall pregnant and deep penetration is often important. Many believe that the missionary position (man on top) is the best as it allows the sperm to be deposited closer to your cervix. The other position to try is penetration from behind, either lying down or on all fours.
Don’t try any sexual positions that involve standing, sitting, or any other gravity-defying moves. Remember, you’re trying to help your man’s little guys, swim quickly and effectively to your egg and not away from it.
When lovemaking is over, some experts advise that you lie back and lift your hips, using a pillow. This will allow gravity to take its course, and allow those suckers to swim downstream. Some even swear the best trick involves lifting your legs in the air for a few minutes. You could even try moving your legs, in a bicycle motion. (Who said making love was entirely sexy)
So you’ve tried all the tricks, you’re husband’s smiling from ear to ear and probably even had a laugh at your bare butt in the air, legs peddling away madly. Remember though, conceiving a baby is all about making love and enjoying the ride.
Johan Theron Nel
M.B.Ch.B (Stellenbosch) M.Med. (O.& G.) (Stellenbosch) F.C.O.G. (S.A.), M.R.C.O.G. (London), F.R.C.S. (Edinbourgh)
Core Obstetrics and Gynaecology with Examination Guidelines for M.B.Ch.B. Published 1995